He was completely and utterly loaded (legal eagle, DB9, country manor, blah blah blah) with no regard for other people, a huge IQ and possible dyspraxia... hence, in his words, why he 'writes like a doctor'... if only that had been the worst part......
He took me out for dinner and (as a starter for ten) his face was practically in someone else's food as he passed by the tables with a fascination normally reserved for small children... and asked loudly 'what on earth is that?' of a horrified elderly couple..
He made the most horrendous jokes ever plus had a penchant for staring at other couples and claiming (very loudly) that one of them looked bored beyond disbelief and that their relationship was probably over....