Dumped For Neglect
A lady I was dating for the past couple months dumped me. She said she was tired of waiting around for me and being neglected all the time. I guess I shouldn't have spent so much time studying for 2 degrees and working 2 jobs to pay for my school. How selfish of me.
Your alias:
anonymous
You:
Male
Your Date:
Female
Where you met:
Coffee House - 808 reads
Comments
got pitty?
Kinda sounds like a pitty party, or maybe an excuse to "market" yourself (one of your degrees or jobs wouldn't happen to be in marketing would it?). I once met a girl that broke things off because I had too many morals. Not a pitty party, just an exclaimation of how sometimes things work themselves out.
2 degrees and working 2 jobs?
2 degrees and working 2 jobs? Good for you, GREAT for you! Maybe you shouldn't be on POF though until you wrap things up with school? I mean, relationships take time and energy, and if you're on a dating site people (i.e. women) are going to assume you have said time and energy to put into a relationship.
She was being honest about her needs... Can you blame her?
Hi
Did she know why she was feeling neglected? Maybe this is not a good time for you to be dating anyone seriously if you can't put the time into it. There are plenty of girls out there who will understand and some may be in your exact situation. Sounds like you're too busy for any kind of serious relationship right now, unless your partner is on the same page. Women think differently than men no matter how you slice it, so as she should have been more understanding to you (as long as you let her know right off the bat this this was your situation) you need to understand where a woman might be coming from, especially if you were intimate. Otherwise, she might be the selfish one.
That sucks, but...
Sounds like you have your priorities straight. I once had a prof in a first year class ask "How many of you have a job, a girlfriend, and are going to school full time? Okay, pick two because you won't be able to hang on to all three". Unless you find someone in a similar situation with the same schedule, good luck with that by the way, you don't have the time to give someone the attention they deserve. When you are done school you will have so much more free time, so don't worry about dating too much right now.
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