I met a man who I thought was an amazing guy on Plenty Of Fish. I was a new user and on the site for literlly 5 minutes before he contacted me. He was charming, dynamic and cute.

We met for dinner and he was such a gentleman. We really hit it off. He wanted to be exclusive right away. Kinda freaked me out but I thought "wow here's the guy I was waiting for."

We dated for three weeks and were having so much fun. I closed my profile and asked him if he would do the same. He said he would make it dorment but not remove it...hello red flags but I didn't want to be a snoop so I took him at his word.

Anyway one morning he was leaving my house and I noticed he was still parked in my driveway. I thought maybe he was having car trouble. I went out to check on him and he was on his phone talking to some girl on POF...in my driveway!!!

We broke up and I put him out of my mind. Two weeks later he contacts me. "He misses me, made a mistake and asked me to give him another chance." I fell for it. We were together one more night and then he dumps me by text message saying he loves me but is still hurt from a previous relationship and needs to be alone and not date anyone until he heals. I didn't return the message but went online and there was his profile still up and actively looking for a long term relationship.

Wow who would have thought a 37 year old balding hairdresser who still lives in his parents basement would be such a player?